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Reflexive verbs

Using me/te/se/nos/os with daily-routine verbs

what is it?

A reflexive verb is a verb whose action refers back to the subject — the person doing the action is also the one receiving it. In Spanish, reflexive verbs are marked by a reflexive pronoun (me, te, se, nos, os, se) that must agree with the subject. In the dictionary, these verbs are listed with -se attached to the infinitive: levantarse, ducharse, vestirse, acostarse. They are especially common in daily-routine contexts.

when to use it

  • Daily routines — actions you do to or for yourself: getting up, showering, getting dressed, going to bed.

  • The verb is inherently reflexive — some Spanish verbs only exist in reflexive form (e.g. quejarse). Whenever you use them, the pronoun is obligatory.

  • Distinguishing meaning — some verbs change meaning with the reflexive pronoun: levantar means «to lift (something)», while levantarse means «to get up».

formation

Drop the infinitive -se, conjugate the verb normally for the subject, and place the matching reflexive pronoun immediately before the conjugated form. The table below shows levantarse in the present tense.

subjectpronounverb formfull form
yomelevantome levanto
tútelevantaste levantas
él / ella / ustedselevantase levanta
nosotros/asnoslevantamosnos levantamos
vosotros/asoslevantáisos levantáis
ellos / ellas / ustedesselevantanse levantan

The same pronoun pattern applies to all reflexive verbs (ducharse, vestirse, acostarse, etc.). Note that vestirse and acostarse are also stem-changing verbs, but the reflexive pronoun placement rule is identical.

With infinitives, gerunds, and positive imperatives — the pronoun attaches to the end of the non-finite form instead of standing before it: levantarme (infinitive), levantándome (gerund), levántate (positive imperative, tú). Either position is correct when an infinitive depends on a conjugated verb: Quiero ducharme and Me quiero duchar are both correct.

examples in context

Me levanto a las siete todos los días.
I get up at seven every day.
First-person singular: the pronoun me matches the subject yo and sits before the conjugated verb.
Ella se ducha antes de desayunar.
She showers before having breakfast.
Third-person singular: the pronoun se is used for él, ella, and usted alike.
¿A qué hora te acuestas?
What time do you go to bed?
Second-person singular: te matches the subject tú. Note the stem change o → ue in acostarse.
Nosotros nos vestimos rápido por la mañana.
We get dressed quickly in the morning.
First-person plural: nos matches nosotros.

common pitfalls

  • Omitting the pronoun entirely — the reflexive pronoun is not optional. Without it the sentence is either ungrammatical or means something different.

    ✗ Levanto a las siete. → ✓ Me levanto a las siete.

  • Mismatching pronoun and verb person — the pronoun must always agree with the subject. Using a third-person pronoun with a first-person plural verb is a common slip.

    ✗ Nos levanta. → ✓ Nos levantamos.

  • Attaching the pronoun to a conjugated verb — enclisis (pronoun glued to the end) is only correct with infinitives, gerunds, and positive imperatives, never with a conjugated form.

    ✗ Duchome. → ✓ Me ducho.

Quick check

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Antes de las vacaciones, Laura ___ va a cortar el pelo en la peluquería del hotel.

Fill in the blank with the correct reflexive verb form.

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